Yes and No, I could buy one good duplexer for price for 3 but I purchased them over period time and as I worked through problems I gain experience in building repeaters, tuning antennas, duplexers, troubleshooting, writing code for controllers, making interfaces between radios and cliché statements about "banging head in to the wall" does not really answering my question, but thank you for your input.
Money can solve many problems but, in my opinion, it is most primitive, boring solution, and at the end with no satisfaction/reward but emptiness, please if this is all you can say "spend more money" do not use your valuable time writing it.
Nothing is permanent, maybe(most likely) I would end up spending more money but hobby for me is not having working solutions but the process itself of making it work.
Also I am not looking for opinion please post your real solution if you have it, If not maybe I will post mine if I solve it. I am sure someone will benefit from making work so called cheap duplexer.
Thank You all for your time and advice.