You transmit to the repeater on 467.xxx and receive from the repeater on 462.xxx. Anything that comes out of the repeater will be heard on 462.xxx. That includes the repeater beep that indicates that the repeater has been activated. Sometimes the volume of this beep is very low and hard to hear. Sometimes it is sent without a tone. If it is sent out without a tone, and you have your receive tone set, you will not hear it.
Leave the receive tone out for a while until you feel comfortable that everything is working. Afterwards, you can set it so that you don't have to hear all the extra signals that you will sometimes hear in a congested area. Where I commute back and forth to work. I hear lots of signals from businesses along the highway. I have my receive tone set so I don't have to listen to all that extra noise.
Just a primer incase you don't understand tones:
A tone on the receive squelches out any signal not carrying that specific tone.
If you transmit with a tone:
Someone without a receive tone will hear you.
Someone with the same receive tone will hear you.
Someone with a different receive tone will not hear you.
Hope this helps.