As a fellow repeater owner... I agree with your rant... In fact, I have an aproved only closed repeater and first problem maker, change the codes. Per FCC I have the rules in my favor. There are two types of users, those so thankful and the other who think it like public access and they can say whatever. Keep to you guns...
EDIT: My repeater is not listed and it more word of mouth, friend of a friend....